When to start dating again after break up
The roller-coaster ride is ongoing, and will always repeat itself.No Contact and getting support from those who have also been through it, is the only way to go when breaking free.If he is lacking in both areas, and he is afraid you will no longer be there to cater to his needs, he will start the process all over again!In fact, anyone who has taken a Narcissist back can attest to these cycles of abuse!You must accept that it’s a mental mind game, and the ONLY reason a Narcissist continues to come back is to ensure that he still has you right where he wants you! In addition, in the event a Narcissist is experiencing ‘withdrawal’ from not having enough ‘Narcissistic Supply’, he will immediately swing back into pursuit mode, with the goal of winning you over.
A Narcissist is only returning back to the relationship to get a “quick fix” on his addiction.Probably one of the most confusing and difficult things we all face when being involved with a Narcissist, is the crazing making ‘painful’ cycles of breaking up, followed by the HIGH’s of making up.Unfortunately, it is an inevitable process that comes along with being involved in a Narcissistic Relationship!Why does a Narcissist spend so much time trying to convince you to give them another chance, only to revert back to his cruel ways after he realizes you have ONCE again committed to him?
How can a Narcissist change like the weather, and how in the world can he not show ANY shame or remorse?
He likes to know he still has some kind of hold or effect on you. Refuse to react to him, and refuse to validate him!